In a long-term romantic relationship, it is normal to experience a lack of passion or even sexual indifference. It is important that we recognize the problem and actively seek solutions. There are many factors that cause this situation, and it cannot be solved all at once, so be patient and take your time.
What are the symptoms of a dead bedroom?
A dead bedroom refers to a lack of interest in sex by one of the partners, resulting in an inactive sex life. Although there is still sex, it is not as frequent as the other party expects. Maybe some people think that having sex twice a month is normal, while others think that there is a problem in your relationship. Therefore, there is no standard for the frequency of a dead bedroom.
In addition to an inactive sex life, there are other symptoms such as less intimate contact, kissing, hugging, and touching. When two people are.
Common causes
1. Too familiar
Sex requires some passion and mystery, and being too familiar will destroy this atmosphere. When sex becomes a chore, it makes sex itself boring. So adding some freshness and excitement to sex can rekindle sexual desire.
2. Problems in the relationship
When there are problems in the relationship, it is a common reason for inactive sex. This will seriously destroy the atmosphere between each other and make each other lose interest in sex.
3. Stress and anxiety
The stress and anxiety in life will crush your sexual desire and lead to sexual indifference. This is why many couples become sexually indifferent after experiencing major life changes. Putting most of your energy into dealing with the troubles in life makes it difficult to start new activities, making sex life monotonous and inactive.
4. Physical health problems
Physical health problems can also cause cracks in relationships and emotions, which can be very sad. After all, none of us want to fall into this situation. Physical health problems are things that none of us want, such as injuries, immune system diseases or sexual dysfunction, which will affect each other's sex life and even emotions.
5. Inconsistent sex life
When there are large differences in preferences for sex, it will lead to disagreements. For example, the difference in the frequency of sex needs is too large, or one party likes rough and fast sex, while the other party thinks that sex should be slow, long and intimate.
This huge difference in sexual needs will make each other's sex life disharmonious and inactive.
How to make bedroom games more passionate?
1. Communication and exchange
When you find that there is a problem in your relationship, the first and most important thing is to communicate with your partner sincerely and openly, understand each other's ideas, and find out the reasons for the problem. You can make an appointment with your partner at a suitable time and place so that you can talk better when you feel relaxed.
In this process, be careful to avoid blaming each other. Solving problems together is the key. Listen carefully to your partner's demands and show sympathy and understanding.
2. Find alternative methods
If your needs don't match each other, you can find alternative methods. For example, if you and your partner are inconsistent in sexual needs, you can use sex toys, vibrators, dildos, anal plugs, etc. However, before starting to use sex toys, it is most important to get your partner's consent.
Or you can also try some non-sexual activities, such as doing fitness exercises together, which can not only keep you healthy, but also have a better figure. The hormones such as dopamine and endorphins released during exercise can also make each other feel happier and happier.
Or it can be a common hobby, or cultivating a common hobby, which can also give each other more topics.
3. Find the key reasons
When there are problems in your sex life, finding the key factors can solve the problem faster. Solving the problem is a difficult point, and we need to overcome it together, so give each other some patience and time, and maintain positive communication.
4. Seek professional guidance
If you are in this situation for a long time and cannot change by yourself alone, then it is time to seek help from doctors and sex therapists. Don't be shy or embarrassed about it. It is a very responsible and commendable thing to seek solutions for each other's relationship.
Final thoughts
Bedroom silence is something that may happen in a long-term romantic relationship. There are many factors that cause this, and the most important thing is to deal with it actively together and be patient. Communication is still a very important part of the relationship. Sincere communication is the cornerstone of solving all problems in the relationship. Listen to your partner's needs and maintain empathy and respect.