Ball pranks are popular in the BDSM and kink communities, but are not exclusive to these circles. Let’s explore what gag balls are, their types, and how to use them.
The ball gag has many uses and is a lot of fun. Gagged someone brings a new level of intimacy, excitement and flair to the bedroom, heightening the drive to dominate and submit, which can be incredibly exciting.
Ideal for beginners and couples who want to spice up their bedroom activities, ball gags add an element of excitement and experimentation to playtime.
What Is a Ball Gag?
A ball gag consists of a round ball designed to be placed in a person's mouth, usually held in place by two straps that are secured around the head. It is located behind the teeth and allows a person to keep their mouth open during sexual activity. Ball gags are usually made of materials such as rubber, silicone or plastic and are used to keep the mouth open and limit verbal communication. They are often used to establish or enhance a dominant/submissive dynamic and are popular in bondage scenes. A gagged person cannot speak and can only make sounds such as moans or grunts, and may experience increased salivation during use.
What type of ball gag should you choose?
When choosing a ball mouth, consider the various designs and models available. For starters, breathable and non-breathable options are common. Breathable models have holes for easy breathing, while non-breathable models are solid.
For newbies, it is recommended to start with a breathable ball gag for a comfortable fit. This can then be transitioned to a medicine ball gag which, once familiar, provides a more intense experience.
Ball gags usually come in a variety of sizes, allowing the wearer to gradually adjust to the feeling of having an object in their mouth. Proper size is crucial – a gag that is too small may not serve its purpose, while a gag that is too large may cause discomfort.
Research shows that petite people often need small-sized gags, while larger people may choose medium or larger gags. Oversized gags may also be used intentionally to induce extra stretching sensations in the submissive.
Of our favorite ball gags, the solid silicone gag is the top choice, while for beginners, the classic breathable gag comes highly recommended.
In addition to these staples, there’s also a particularly charming option – mischief designed to resemble a rose, adding a touch of romance and elegance to the experience.
The range of gag options available today extends far beyond the ball gag, offering a variety of options to suit different preferences and desires.
O-ring plug
Also called an open plug, it uses a circular ring instead of a solid ball. This design keeps the wearer's mouth open, allowing for activities such as facial sex and allowing for the insertion of objects.
Dildo gag
Ball gags with attached dildos feature a ball on the inside and a dildo on the outside. This design allows the submissive wearer to be used as a tool, enabling another partner to use the wearer's head to penetrate themselves or a third partner.
Bite gag
Mouthpieces, unlike ball mouthpieces, have a unique shape and are designed to be bitten while worn. These gags are usually cylindrical in shape and provide a unique experience to the wearer.
Ball plug with nipple clamp
The Ball Gag with Nipple Clamp combines a traditional ball gag with an included nipple clamp. This innovative design provides a unique sensory experience, combining the restraint of the wearer's mouth with the stimulation of the nipples.
Rope gag
Involves using a rope or restraint strap to effectively gag your partner. Restraints are often favored for their ease of use and versatility, providing a comfortable alternative to potentially rougher ropes.
How to use a ball gag safely
When considering a ball gag, open communication with your partner is crucial. Discuss your intentions, desires, and boundaries beforehand, especially if you are unfamiliar with them.
Make sure both parties fully understand and agree to the game, including expectations and boundaries. Discussing consent and establishing a safe word is crucial to ensuring both parties feel comfortable and respected throughout the experience.
Once the gag is in place, verbal communication becomes impossible, which emphasizes the importance of prior discussion and agreement. By addressing these issues upfront, you can ensure a safe and enjoyable experience for both partners.
Traditional safewords may not work in situations where a partner is gagged, so it's crucial to establish alternative signals beforehand. Agree on a clear and easy-to-understand signal that the gagged partner can use to express discomfort or the need to stop.
Signals can include rhythmic grunting, blinking, squeezing your Dom's hand, shaking his head, or grabbing an object.
For first-time users, start slowly and limit wearing time to no more than 15 minutes to prevent discomfort or jaw soreness.
Even with a breathable ball gag, never leave your gagged partner unattended. If they are tied up or start to panic, they may not be able to remove the gag on their own. Stay in close contact and check in regularly to ensure their comfort and safety.
If you are sick or have trouble breathing through your nose, avoid using a ball mouth device because your mouth will be blocked and you will need to breathe normally through your nose.
After playing, clean the ball opening thoroughly with warm water and soap to prevent the spread of germs and maintain hygiene.
Final thoughts
Ball gags are often associated with experienced sex product users and experienced BDSM practitioners. Nonetheless, we believe anyone can enjoy them. Whether looking to explore new forms of bondage, intensify dominant/submissive dynamics, or indulge in humiliation or objectification fantasies, ball gags provide a mind-blowing experience.
To us, the gag ball represents a sex tool for enhancing intimacy, trust, and exploration in the bedroom. We use them to delve into power dynamics, deepen connections, and explore our fantasies in a safe and consensual way. Psychologically, ball pranks can evoke feelings of vulnerability, surrender, and excitement, heightening the intensity of the experience and promoting a deeper understanding of ourselves and our desires.