As porn has evolved, so have people's expectations of sex. I also want to try new feelings and experiences. Squirting is a very common phenomenon in porn, and it has also been exaggerated to give people some wrong guidance. But squirting is real, although not everyone can experience it. There are a few tricks you can try to explore squirting and increase the likelihood of getting one.
What is squirting?
Squirting generally refers to some liquid released by women during sexual intercourse. People have some misunderstandings about squirting. Squirting is not the same as peeing. It is also different from female ejaculation, and it is not the same as sexual incontinence. Although not everyone will experience squirting, squirting does enhance sexual experience and satisfaction. If you haven't experienced a squirt, there are a few tips you can try to help increase your likelihood of getting one.
1. Relax
The first step is to relax your body muscles. When you first try squirting, take your time. Don't do it too hastily. Give yourself enough time to feel and get excited. Focus on how you feel and stay away from things that distract you. Squirting can be messy, so try it out on your bed with a sex blanket or in a bathroom setting. You don’t have to worry about soiling your bedding, and you can enjoy the moment better and more focused.
2. Try it while playing solo
If you want to try squirting, my suggestion is to try it while playing solo so that you can better discover your sensitive points and how to make yourself feel better. You can also reduce the pressure when you try G-spot orgasm with your partner later, and better describe your sensitive points to your partner and what you want the other person to do to you.
3. Use sex toys
There are many types of sex toys, and there are also sex toys specifically designed to stimulate the G-spot. You can try using sex toys specifically designed to stimulate the G-spot, which will allow you to better find the feeling and your own excitement points, and at the same time enhance stimulation and pleasure. At the same time, sex toys can also be used with your partner, or for sexual purposes. Arousal tools and dual stimulation to experience, better explore squirting.
4. Stimulate from the outside
You can try using your hands or a wand to stimulate the clitoris to achieve orgasm. This increases blood flow to the genital area and makes the genital area more sensitive. In this way, you increase the possibility of achieving a G-spot orgasm. Or you can try dual stimulation, stimulating the clitoris and G-spot at the same time to increase the possibility of achieving a G-spot orgasm.
5. Find the G-spot
The G-spot is usually located on an uneven spot 2-3 inches above the front wall of the vagina. Stimulating the G-spot and applying some pressure to the G-spot can bring about extraordinary sensations. You have to follow your own pace and slowly feel what angle, pressure and frequency make you feel better. I recommend using lubricant to reduce friction and discomfort, allowing you to experience and enjoy it better. If you don't know what lubricant to choose, I recommend water-based lubricant, which is suitable for most situations and will not react with some materials.
6. Control pelvic floor muscles
You can add pelvic floor muscle exercises to your daily exercise. You can exercise the pelvic floor muscles through Kegel exercises or other exercises that can strengthen the pelvic floor muscles, so as to better control the pelvic floor muscles. Exercising your pelvic floor muscles at the same time can bring us many benefits, such as having better and more intense orgasms and increasing the likelihood of getting a squirt.
7. Poses you can try
If you're exploring squirting with your partner, here are some G-spot stimulation positions you can try
Doggy style: Also known as doggy style, you can have enough space to use sex toys or hands to stimulate the clitoris to achieve mixed orgasms.
Missionary: Missionary is probably the most commonly used or familiar position, and you are more familiar with how to bring your partner to orgasm.
Cowgirl: Cowgirl can better control the angle and frequency, stimulate her sensitive areas, and better feel the G-spot stimulation.
Final thoughts
Squirting can bring new exciting feelings to our sexual life. While experiencing the novelty, squirting can also enhance our sexual experience and sexual satisfaction. Although not everyone can experience squirting, so if you have tried a lot of methods, you can't achieve it. Don't feel sad or anxious. The process of exploring yourself is also full of joy and pleasure. Isn't it also a wonderful thing to understand yourself better?