How to masturbate without sex toys

How to masturbate without sex toys

Today, women have many ways to please themselves, such as various sex toys, shower heads, electric toothbrushes, friction and leg clamping. But these methods are not suitable for everyone, so at the beginning, let's go back to the original way and explore our bodies with our hands to better feel the way we like.

Explore your body with your hands, which is a way that suits most people. Explore the frequency, pressure and feeling you like. Although sex toys are good, it doesn't hurt to know yourself better before trying them.

1. Create an atmosphere

Creating an atmosphere can make you feel better, more relaxed, and immersed. For example, it is important to have clean and comfortable bedding. Add something you think is sexy, such as playing sexy music, watching pornographic works, audio, etc., or pornographic books, etc. Or dim the lights in the room, add atmosphere lights, or light scented candles.

Choose things that make you feel good, understand what makes you excited, and enhance your desire.

2. Take it slow

Slow down your movements to better feel the different feelings brought by different stimuli. When using sex toys, people tend to want strong stimulation, or faster sexual experience and more orgasms. Masturbation can bring different stimulation from sex toys. By slowing down the action, you can not only feel better, but also understand what kind of stimulation and preference you prefer, or just want to change a way, you can also have a fresh feeling.

3. Try sensitive parts

Try to stimulate sensitive parts, such as nipples, behind the ears, inner thighs, chest, clitoris, labia, vaginal opening, etc. There are many sexy areas, and different parts bring different feelings and stimulations for everyone, but it is undeniable that the clitoris is the most sensitive place for most people. You can try different ways to stimulate it, such as dry humping, and try to rub it with different objects, such as pillows, quilts, or harder objects.

If you don't like it, you can also stimulate it with your hands only, try different strengths, positions, rotation directions, etc. Explore the feelings you prefer.

4. Erotic massage

Combine erotic massage with masturbation, apply massage oil on your body, and choose scented massage oil to bring a good olfactory experience. Massage oil will also make exploring the body smoother and enhance stimulation. If you have a partner, you can try to give each other an erotic massage and masturbate each other. What could be sexier than this and bring a refreshing experience?

5. Try different environments and postures

Although familiar environments and postures will give you a sense of security, they will make people feel boring and lose interest and excitement for a long time. Changing scenes and postures will bring different feelings and experiences, and you can also better explore your favorite postures, such as trying in the bathtub, trying to stand and lift one leg, on a chair, etc. But if this is your first time, then my suggestion is to lie on your back, and you can also use a mirror to better observe your body. Explore your sexual fantasies and try different scenes.

6. Use lubricants

Lubricants are a very important part of sex, but they are often overlooked. Especially if you want to try quick sex, or because of age or physical reasons, you cannot secrete enough fluid. And lubricants can greatly improve the experience of masturbation, reduce the discomfort and pain caused by friction, and bring a better feeling.

7. Watching pornographic works

Watching pornographic works, such as pornographic audio, pornographic books and pornographic videos, will trigger associations, feel excited and stimulated, and allow the body to enter the state faster. At the same time, it increases the possibility of trying new things.

8. Do not take orgasm as the only goal

Orgasm is not the only criterion for judging whether it is pleasant, so it does not mean that if there is no orgasm, this experience is a failure. Masturbation is more about feeling your own pleasure, understanding how to please yourself, what kind of methods and preferences you like. This can not only increase the possibility of getting an orgasm, but also better express your sexual desire to your partner.

Masturbation should not take orgasm or the number of orgasms as a goal, which will put a lot of pressure on yourself invisibly, only focusing on getting an orgasm, while ignoring the stimulation brought by different behaviors, and reducing the desire to explore different parts of the body.

Final thoughts

Although sex toys are a good tool to help us have a better sexual experience, sometimes returning to masturbation is also a different feeling, especially for people who have not tried sex toys. Masturbation can be a good way to find out what you like more, such as clitoral stimulation or the feeling of insertion or multiple stimulation. So masturbation is a good way to understand your body.

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