If you are buying your first sex toy, a dildo is definitely a must-have. Although dildos are one of the simplest toys, they still come in a wide variety of options: realistic dildos, silicone dildos, glass dildos, fantasy dildos, and more. But how to use these dildos is a problem for beginners. In this article, we will explain to you how to ride a dildo for a pleasurable experience and share some tips and tricks for using various dildos.
Some Preparations Before Riding
Don't neglect the preparation before riding. Once you are well prepared, the pleasure and excitement of riding a dildo will be more intense.
Create atmosphere
A suitable atmosphere can always enhance your senses and make sex feel better. For example, turn down the lights, light a few scented candles, and play your favorite music. You can even put on your sexy pajamas and spray some perfume, which is great.
Choosing the Right Size Dildo
For beginners, I would recommend starting with a 1.2" diameter dildo. This is a diameter that most people can easily adapt to without causing discomfort or psychological pressure. If you need a larger size, it depends on your situation, but don't let yourself feel pressured.
Don't Skip Foreplay
Putting in enough foreplay can pay huge dividends in your sex life, and the same goes for riding a dildo. This prepares your body for the dildo's entry. You can try stroking and sensual massage of your clitoris, nipples, or other erogenous zones. Adding some vibrators to arouse your body is also a good idea, and many users say they like to alternate between using a vibrator and a dildo.
Don't skimp on lubricant
When using a dildo, don't forget to apply lubricant , especially when you are not fully aroused. Complete wetness is very important, not only making it easier to insert the dildo, but also greatly improving the riding experience. However, pay attention to the compatibility of the dildo and lubricant. It is recommended that you use a water-based lubricant because it is compatible with all dildos.
How to Use a Dildo
There are many different ways to insert a dildo into your vagina, depending on the design of the dildo you use and your preferences. You can push the dildo as deep as possible along your vagina, feeling the stretching of your internal muscles and the feeling of your entire vagina being filled. If you don't like this feeling, you can also try shorter insertions.
If you choose a hard or textured dildo, you will feel the texture rubbing against the vaginal wall when inserting it. If you insert a soft and curved dildo, you will find that the tip of the dildo can easily hit a certain pleasurable part, which is probably the G-spot. It is located on the front wall of the vagina. This curved structure of the dildo is more in line with human anatomy. You can use it to try to target your G-spot, which can bring extreme pleasure and even intense orgasms based on continuous stimulation.
How to Ride a Dildo
Riding a dildo is a great way to experience sexual pleasure while masturbating, and it can also be used to practice and simulate real sex. Whether you are alone or with a partner, you can explore your body and enhance your sexual experience by riding a dildo. You can use a dildo to find your favorite sexual positions and angles, or you can use it to try some new ideas you have always wanted to try without any pressure. Below we have introduced some of the main ways to use a dildo.
Dildo Riding Positions
The most comfortable position for riding a dildo is to lie on your back, bend your knees, lift your hips slightly (or use a vibrator to prop it up), find the best angle for insertion, and then place your hands between your legs to guide the dildo in. This position requires you to use your waist to move up and down.
Another position is to lie face down and reach your hands under your body to guide the dildo. This position is very comfortable for men to use a dildo because it helps to aim at the anus .
Of course, you can try Edge Ride, fix the dildo on a solid platform such as the edge of the bed, table or sofa, then sit on the edge and slowly sink down, using your thighs or buttocks to control the angle and depth of insertion. This position is particularly suitable for exploring the stimulation brought by the forward angle, which can more accurately massage the G-spot or prostate.
How to Use a Suction Cup Dildo
A suction cup dildo is essential for a dildo ride. This way you can really free your hands and ride to orgasm like you're having sex. Stick it to any smooth surface to keep it in place. If you like cowgirl position, you can stick it to the floor, chair, or even the toilet seat, then sit on it and rub it slowly and control the depth of penetration. But if you like doggy style sex, you can stick the dildo with the suction cup to the wall, bathroom cabinet, or even the door. Think of it as your partner penetrating you from behind, and you can control yourself by pushing yourself back onto the dildo. Then you can improvise.
How to use a vibrating dildo?
There are many sizes of vibrating dildos on the market now. They look no different from ordinary dildos, but they can provide excellent vibration effects. It is very practical for beginners, especially when you don’t know what you like. The use of vibrating dildos is also very simple, just like ordinary dildos. If you need the vibration function, just turn on the switch, so that you can feel double stimulation. Of course, you can also use its vibration function to stimulate your nipples or clitoris and other sensitive parts.
How to use glass and metal dildos?
Glass and metal dildos These hard dildos are just as effective as other dildos, and you can use them to deeply massage your vagina. They are also great for temperature play. Because glass and metal conduct heat very well, you can heat them up in warm water or cool them down in ice water, then insert them into your vagina to feel the warm and cool sensations, adding another layer of excitement to your sex life.
How to use a thrust dildo?
The thrust dildo is one of the last popular dildos. It has a thrust function that can simulate the up and down movement during sex. Different models have a variety of different modes and rhythms. You can use it alone or give it to your partner to tease and please you, making it truly hands-free.
Do Weird-shaped Dildos Work for You?
In addition to these dildos that look like penises, there are also a large number of dildos in strange shapes. Are they really useful to you? Yes, each of them has its own unique feeling. Just like different dishes have different tastes.
Double Ended Dildo
This type of dildo has two ends, which means it can be inserted by two people at the same time. This is very friendly to lesbians and people who like anal sex, so that both parties can enjoy the stimulation. Therefore, they are sometimes called lesbian dildos or gay dildos.
Dragon Dildo
A dragon dildo is a fantasy-inspired dildo that mimics the reproductive organs of a "dragon" or other fantasy creature. It often features unique textures, exaggerated shapes, and whimsical designs. If you're looking for an unconventional experience or role-playing fantasy, try this exaggerated fantasy dildo. If you're a dildo collector, this is a must-have.
Horse Dildo
This is a huge dildo inspired by the reproductive organs of horses. It looks very real. Of course, it is also a fantasy dildo. Its characteristics are a bulge at the front (similar to a mushroom head), a smooth and curved stem, and a thick and "nodular" root. When inserted, there will be a gradual stimulation experience from thin to thick. It is suitable for advanced users who seek extreme stimulation and orc culture.
Dog Dildo
Like the horse dildo, the dog dildo is also inspired by an animal dildo. It imitates the shape of a male dog's genitals, with a slightly pointed front end, which is convenient for smooth insertion. In addition, the protruding ball at the base of the stem can be used to achieve a stimulating gameplay of locking and releasing. When the ball is fully inserted, there will be a noticeable full feeling at the front end of the vagina. It is very practical for users who enjoy this feeling.
Tentacle Dildos
Tentacle dildo is the most popular one in the Fantasy Dildo category. It imitates the tentacles of octopus, Cthulhu, alien creatures, siren, etc., usually with spiral texture, suction cup protrusions, and wavy bends. The overall shape is progressive and slender, bringing progressive insertion pleasure.
Final Thoughts
Dildos are a very large family, and each one has its own unique features. It is best to choose a few that suit you and try them out. Riding a dildo can help you experience these feelings better. We hope that this comprehensive guide on how to use a dildo will be helpful to you and the beginners of dildo use. Remember, when using a dildo, don't be shy and try different positions and methods to find your own pleasure.