Are you feeling bored and bored with your current sex life, or want to try new ideas? It's time to step out of your comfort zone and try some kinkier ideas and positions to add new spice to your sex life. Of course, before trying new ideas, you first need to get your partner's consent. Consent is sexy.
What is a kink?
Before you start trying it out, it's important to understand what a kink is. Kink means unconventional sexual activities, covering BDSM, fetishes and role play as well as unconventional fantasies and sexual desires. Common fetishes include impact play, sensory play, rope bondage, breathing play, edge play, etc., but no matter which one you want to try, communication and obtaining your partner's consent are necessary.
How to safely explore kinks?
1. Open communication
It's important to have open communication before you start trying out new ideas. Make sure to agree and express each other's desires and boundaries. If you are unsure of your boundaries, it is important to make a list and understand each other's boundaries. Set a safe word, such as the common colors red, yellow, and green. Communication isn't permanent, people's boundaries and preferences change, so it's important to keep communicating and interacting on an ongoing basis.
2. Start with small things
If boundaries and preferences are not clear at the beginning, it is safe to start small and gain a better understanding of your likes and dislikes. If you want to try bondage play, start with a blindfold or cuffs. Feel the arousal and tension that comes from letting your partner take control.
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3. Ideas to try
If you're interested in kink but don't know where to start or aren't quite ready to dive in yet, here are a few ideas to try.
- Watch related pornographic works
- Temperature game
- Spanking
- Kinky sex toy
What is sensory deprivation?
In short, sensory deprivation is the deprivation of one or more sensory sensations, making the remaining sensations more intense and sensitive. Sensory deprivation is great for foreplay and adding a new twist to your sex life. It’s important to set a safe word before you start trying sensory deprivation, and to respect your partner’s boundaries.
1. Visual deprivation
If you want to try sensory deprivation, visual deprivation is a great place to start. Because whether it is an eye mask, a tie, or a scarf, they are all items that are easy to obtain. Moreover, visual deprivation is easy to accept and easy to operate. If you feel insecure during the process, just gently take off the blindfold.
2. Tactile deprivation
Wear some sexy clothing to change your tactile experience. Common clothing with PVC, leather, latex, and mesh textures can give you different tactile feelings. While trying tactile deprivation, if you are interested in role-playing, you can also combine tactile deprivation with role-playing to have a richer experience and take your tactile sensation to another dimension. Wearing sexy clothing at the same time can also enhance your confidence and sex appeal.
3. Auditory deprivation
Although dirty talk in the ear, or the gasps and moans of your partner, are very seductive and exciting. However, with a short period of auditory deprivation, you can better feel and focus on your partner's movements on your body, and have a more intense tactile experience. Hearing deprivation can be achieved through earplugs, noise-canceling headphones or playing sexy music to achieve a more wonderful experience.
Aftercare
Aftercare is very important to your sexual experience and your partner's feelings, especially when exploring BDSM play. Aftercare is mainly divided into psychological and physical care. Physically, you can take a bath with your partner and give each other massages. Give your partner a hug, kiss, touch, etc. after it's over, or take care of your partner's stomach and prepare food and water for your partner. Psychologically, you can express affirmation to your partner, like and praise your partner's behavior. Communicating and communicating after sex can better understand each other's preferences and increase each other's intimacy.
Final thoughts
If you want to add a new dimension to your sex life, adding kink to your sex life is a great idea. Start small when trying kink and avoid trying risky activities right at the beginning. Respect your partner's boundaries and explore activities you enjoy, or kinky sex toys.
Aftercare after sex is a very important part of your sexual experience, so don’t ignore it. Giving your partner some psychological and spiritual care can also enhance mutual intimacy. Don’t put too much pressure on yourself at the beginning and ask yourself to do everything absolutely right. Even a master can't do it well at the beginning, don't worry too much. Hope you guys have fun!