Slow sex is just as the name implies, slowing down each other's movements, so that you can better feel and focus on each other's feelings. Slow sex originated from Tantric sex, which is for better spiritual and physical connection and focusing on your own feelings.
What are the benefits of slow sex?
Slow sex allows you to face and relieve stress and tension in a more relaxed way. It is a good medicine in a heavy and hurried life, allowing us to feel ourselves more focused. Moreover, if the brain is in a high-pressure and tense state, it will greatly affect orgasm, so before sex, do a good job of foreplay and try some relaxing activities, such as bathing together, massaging each other, exercising together, etc. These activities can not only make us feel comfortable and relaxed, but also enhance the intimacy between each other.
Moreover, women need longer time to get orgasm than men, so slow sex allows the body to get into a better state, enhance feelings, and improve each other's sexual experience.
Slow sex is very suitable for people who have difficulty reaching orgasm, because the main purpose of slow sex is to feel better, rather than focusing on getting orgasm, which can reduce stress and give each other a better sexual experience.
How to have slow sex?
If you feel that slow sex is suitable for you, then try the following techniques to better help you experience slow orgasms.
1. Try mindfulness
If you can't concentrate on feeling during slow sex, you can't have a good experience. You can try looking into your partner's eyes and establishing a connection with your partner. Or try breathing exercises, slow deep breaths, and cycles several times to achieve more concentration and form a connection physically and mentally
2. Create a sexy atmosphere
A sexy atmosphere is a very important premise, which can not only increase desire, the number of sex, but also make us more focused on enjoying it. First of all, a clean and tidy bedroom is the most basic, which is the premise for creating a sexy bedroom. You can choose beautiful and comfortable bedding and keep them clean and tidy. If you want to increase the sexy atmosphere, you can create a sexy atmosphere in the room through some sexy objects such as atmosphere lights, nice aromatherapy candles, and comfortable carpets.
You can also enhance the pleasure and comfort both physically and mentally through some foreplay activities, such as erotic massage, using some nice-smelling massage oils to give each other erotic massage, and taking a bath together in the bathtub.
3. Extend foreplay
Due to the fast-paced life and sex life nowadays, the importance of foreplay is often overlooked. However, foreplay is not only to make the body enter the state faster and increase the lubrication of the vagina, but also to improve women's sexual experience. After all, most women cannot reach orgasm through penetrative sex.
Extending foreplay and increasing intimate behaviors such as kissing, hugging, and caressing can increase intimacy and increase each other's excitement.
4. Sensory games
Exploring sensory games can well amplify sensory feelings, such as vision, hearing, smell, touch, and taste, to experience pleasant feelings. For example, common sensory games include candle games, ice games, impact games, or combined attempts to deprive one of the sensory feelings to amplify other sensory feelings. Try different sensory games to bring different feelings, such as dripping low-temperature candles on your partner's body to create your own artwork. Or try temperature games to feel the feelings brought to you by different temperatures. You can try to hold ice cubes in your mouth, or combine temperature games with sex toys. Using sex toys made of glass and stainless steel can achieve better results because these two materials have good thermal conductivity.
Putting cream or ice cream on your partner's body, licking it slowly, sucking it clean, teasing your partner, and observing her reaction is also a kind of fun.
Combining sensory games with sensory deprivation can amplify other sensory feelings. For example, the simplest way is to cover your partner's eyes, which can give you a good sense of freshness and stimulation, and you can use daily necessities in our lives to replace the eye mask, such as scarves, ties, and sleep masks. You can also try using earplugs, wearing latex clothes, etc. to enhance your feelings and experience different stimulations.
Final thoughts
Slow sex can not only relieve us from stress and tension, but also allow us to focus more on each other's feelings, which can better increase the sexual experience. You can try mindful breathing, creating a sexy atmosphere, extending foreplay, and sensory games to enhance your feelings, have different stimulations and experiences, and have a more intense and lasting orgasm.